Who really owns a man,His mother or wife?

ARGUMENT:- Mother:- my son must obey me unless he didn't suck my breast for 1yr, wife:- he sucks mine now & sucked it for more then 5yr and is still sucking, Mother:- I carried him for nine months. Wife:- he was only 3.5kg then, so what's †ђξ big deal? I carry him every night and he is 85kg now. Mother.:- he passed between my legs. Wife:- Hahaha, he only passed that once, he stays in- between my legs like everyday. Please WHO OWNS A MAN? Tell us Now!!!.......